I feel, through bitter experience, that a lot of Moderstors on some forums are a bit like keyboard warriors sometimes.
I have always tried to enphasise safety, and when I pointed out on one forum that some of the moderators were openly discussing unsafe practises, I was banned for a month or so. Then when I was allowed back on, they edited my posts, told bare faced lies and then restricted me for a year of not being able to defend myself.
So my advice is whatever the forum, if they resort to barring you for a seemingly innocent remark or comment, then I feel "Its their loss" not yours. A raised middle finger and come to a forum that is tolerant and fair